Woman gets probation for underage sex

**plasty** · 05-15-12 at 10:10 AM

Woman gets probation for sex with underage neighbor

A San Antonio woman who admitted to Child Protective Services investigators that she left her children unsupervised to go have sex with a 13-year-old neighbor was ordered Monday to serve deferred adjudication probation for aggravated sexual assault of a child.
Prosecutors had recommended prison for Amanda Ann Nabers, 26, who will have to register as a sex offender for life.

Amanda Nabers had sex with 13yr old

But she gave a full confession, she has already lost her children, her house and her job, and the victim's family was in favor of probation, defense attorney Carlos Martinez told state District Judge Juanita Vasquez-Gardner.
Nabers told authorities the trysts took place four or five times from February to August 2011 while she was high on marijuana and Xanax.
Had Nabers been a man, she would more than likely be prison bound, but the wishes of the victim and his family play a large roll in determining the sentence, the judge said.

Amanda Rosa: Did NOT have sex
with underage neighbor (or me)

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http://www.mysanantonio.com/news/local_news/article/Woman-gets-probation-for-sex-with-underage-3558020.php

**Omega_Prime** · 05-15-12 at 10:12 AM

Wait i'm confused is SHE the one who had sex with a 13 year old or the parent of the child?

**CyberKingdom** · 05-15-12 at 10:15 AM

Quote: Originally Posted by Omega_Prime

Wait i'm confused is SHE the one who had sex with a 13 year old or the parent of the child?

She is a woman who had sex with a child and got probation. Sad how much the law system and society is with women and against men. A man would have gotten 25 years in jail.

**Omega_Prime** · 05-15-12 at 10:17 AM

Quote: Originally Posted by CyberKingdom

She is a woman who had sex with a child and got probation. Sad how much the law system and society is with women and against men. A man would have gotten 25 years in jail.

Very true. Though I doubt the kid is complaining so really it should be what the other party thinks.

**Larzee** · 05-15-12 at 10:20 AM

I saw the same thing happen at the trial level in a county in central Illinois. The judge later got a federal appointment. Guy had been a circuit judge for a while, so apparently the voters didn't mind his leniency.

Adanaliyik · 05-15-12 at 10:27 AM

Quote: Originally Posted by Omega_Prime

Very true. Though I doubt the kid is complaining so really it should be what the other party thinks.

Would you have complained if you were getting some of that when you were 13?

I wouldn't have complained then and I wouldn't now if I was getting either of them...

:)

**EvilToeKnee** · 05-15-12 at 10:34 AM

I've noticed all the women caught doing this are pretty darn good looking too...

**ndemars18** · 05-15-12 at 10:35 AM

this is her. Yuck

**Wayne65** · 05-15-12 at 10:41 AM

Makes me wish I was 13 again...in her neighborhood

**Omega_Prime** · 05-15-12 at 11:10 AM

Quote: Originally Posted by Adanaliyik

Would you have complained if you were getting some of that when you were 13?

I wouldn't have complained then and I wouldn't now if I was getting either of them...

:)

You read my post as only to this but I mean generic. If there is any bad doings it should be what the other party things (not just their parents) whether it should be taken to the next level.

**L1b3rta** · 05-15-12 at 11:11 AM

LOL I bet the kid didn't even felt the slightest assaulted. And goddamn, I wish that happened to me. I only got as far as seeing a tig bitted teacher of mine who once leaned forward in a low cut blouse during a conversation between us, and fantasizing of something possibly 'happening' between us, but that's it. :(

**CyberKingdom** · 05-15-12 at 11:29 AM

Quote: Originally Posted by ndemars18

this is her. Yuck

Yuck? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder but she is pretty good looking. I'd definitely appreciate her pity sex.

**shin** · 05-15-12 at 11:30 AM

Quote: Originally Posted by Omega_Prime

Wait i'm confused is SHE the one who had sex with a 13 year old or the parent of the child?

/same
i had to re-read that paragraph 3-4 times.

Adanaliyik · 05-15-12 at 11:45 AM

Quote: Originally Posted by Omega_Prime

You read my post as only to this but I mean generic. If there is any bad doings it should be what the other party things (not just their parents) whether it should be taken to the next level.

Actually, I only read that far for the humorous side of it.

As for the serious side of it, I happen to have a problem with that. As has been pointed out, had it been a 26 year old man and a 13 year old girl, the story would have a totally different ending. Even if the 13 year old girl was madly in love with the guy, and even if the parents were ok with it, the guy would still get 25 years.

There was this guy I worked with, 30 years old, who fell in love with this 15 year old girl. Of course, they started having sex, but with the parents consent, they also got married. Now, the guy wasn't even arrested or charged until after they were legally married. But, because there was a witness that they were having sex prior to the marriage, the guy was arrested on statutory rape charges, and got 20 years hard labor. That was against the protests of the "victim" and against the protests of the victim's family.

And, while that happened years ago, if it were to happen again today, the same exact thing would happen. Even if the girl protested, even if the parents protested, even if they were legally married at the time of arrest, the guy would still get a long jail term.

Would it be better if they took the victim's feelings into account? Yes. But, in most states, 13 is considered too young to be making those types of decisions. That's why statutory rape laws exist. Not to protect kids that age from actually getting raped, because statutory rape is only for cases of consensual sex. No, it's to protect kids from predators who will sweet talk and fool these kids into doing things they really don't have the judgement skills to understand properly.

There's also sexual parity to consider here. In almost every case of adults having sex with teens, men have gotten heavy sentences while the women have gotten light sentences. The circumstances have been identical, yet the men pay a higher penalty for the exact same offense.

So, while taking the feelings of the victims into account might be better, either take them into account in all cases, both male and female. or don't take them into account at all. And give sexual predators like this one, the same sentence you would give a man, not probation because the "poor woman has suffered enough".

But, rather than write all this, and start a heated discussion about the validity of statutory rape laws, I decided to make a quick joke and get out... I still think my first decision was the right one...

:)

05-15-12 at 11:11 AM	#11
L1b3rta Guru Join Date: Jun 2010 Posts: 5,995	LOL I bet the kid didn't even felt the slightest assaulted. And goddamn, I wish that happened to me. I only got as far as seeing a tig bitted teacher of mine who once leaned forward in a low cut blouse during a conversation between us, and fantasizing of something possibly 'happening' between us, but that's it. :( Last edited by L1b3rta; 05-15-12 at 11:13 AM.

05-15-12 at 10:12 AM	#2
Omega_Prime Autobot Supreme Commander Join Date: Jul 2010 Posts: 3,569	Wait i'm confused is SHE the one who had sex with a 13 year old or the parent of the child?

05-15-12 at 10:15 AM	#3
CyberKingdom Master Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Houston, TX Posts: 1,106	Quote: Originally Posted by Omega_Prime Wait i'm confused is SHE the one who had sex with a 13 year old or the parent of the child? She is a woman who had sex with a child and got probation. Sad how much the law system and society is with women and against men. A man would have gotten 25 years in jail.

05-15-12 at 10:17 AM	#4
Omega_Prime Autobot Supreme Commander Join Date: Jul 2010 Posts: 3,569	Quote: Originally Posted by CyberKingdom She is a woman who had sex with a child and got probation. Sad how much the law system and society is with women and against men. A man would have gotten 25 years in jail. Very true. Though I doubt the kid is complaining so really it should be what the other party thinks.

05-15-12 at 10:20 AM	#5
Larzee Novice Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: DeKalb, IL Posts: 126	I saw the same thing happen at the trial level in a county in central Illinois. The judge later got a federal appointment. Guy had been a circuit judge for a while, so apparently the voters didn't mind his leniency.

05-15-12 at 10:27 AM	#6
Adanaliyik Master Join Date: May 2012 Location: Turkey Posts: 1,162	Quote: Originally Posted by Omega_Prime Very true. Though I doubt the kid is complaining so really it should be what the other party thinks. Would you have complained if you were getting some of that when you were 13? I wouldn't have complained then and I wouldn't now if I was getting either of them... :)

05-15-12 at 10:34 AM	#7
EvilToeKnee 3rd Street Saint Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: USA Posts: 771	I've noticed all the women caught doing this are pretty darn good looking too...

05-15-12 at 10:35 AM	#8
ndemars18 d(-_-)b Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: d(-_-)b Posts: 1,605	this is her. Yuck

05-15-12 at 10:41 AM	#9
Wayne65 Newcomer Join Date: Dec 2009 Posts: 15	Makes me wish I was 13 again...in her neighborhood

05-15-12 at 11:10 AM	#10
Omega_Prime Autobot Supreme Commander Join Date: Jul 2010 Posts: 3,569	Quote: Originally Posted by Adanaliyik Would you have complained if you were getting some of that when you were 13? I wouldn't have complained then and I wouldn't now if I was getting either of them... :) You read my post as only to this but I mean generic. If there is any bad doings it should be what the other party things (not just their parents) whether it should be taken to the next level.

05-15-12 at 11:29 AM	#12
CyberKingdom Master Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Houston, TX Posts: 1,106	Quote: Originally Posted by ndemars18 this is her. Yuck Yuck? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder but she is pretty good looking. I'd definitely appreciate her pity sex.

05-15-12 at 11:30 AM	#13
shin shes dope Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: South Korea 비밀 키티 도조 Posts: 1,190	Quote: Originally Posted by Omega_Prime Wait i'm confused is SHE the one who had sex with a 13 year old or the parent of the child? /same i had to re-read that paragraph 3-4 times.

05-15-12 at 11:45 AM	#14
Adanaliyik Master Join Date: May 2012 Location: Turkey Posts: 1,162	Quote: Originally Posted by Omega_Prime You read my post as only to this but I mean generic. If there is any bad doings it should be what the other party things (not just their parents) whether it should be taken to the next level. Actually, I only read that far for the humorous side of it. As for the serious side of it, I happen to have a problem with that. As has been pointed out, had it been a 26 year old man and a 13 year old girl, the story would have a totally different ending. Even if the 13 year old girl was madly in love with the guy, and even if the parents were ok with it, the guy would still get 25 years. There was this guy I worked with, 30 years old, who fell in love with this 15 year old girl. Of course, they started having sex, but with the parents consent, they also got married. Now, the guy wasn't even arrested or charged until after they were legally married. But, because there was a witness that they were having sex prior to the marriage, the guy was arrested on statutory rape charges, and got 20 years hard labor. That was against the protests of the "victim" and against the protests of the victim's family. And, while that happened years ago, if it were to happen again today, the same exact thing would happen. Even if the girl protested, even if the parents protested, even if they were legally married at the time of arrest, the guy would still get a long jail term. Would it be better if they took the victim's feelings into account? Yes. But, in most states, 13 is considered too young to be making those types of decisions. That's why statutory rape laws exist. Not to protect kids that age from actually getting raped, because statutory rape is only for cases of consensual sex. No, it's to protect kids from predators who will sweet talk and fool these kids into doing things they really don't have the judgement skills to understand properly. There's also sexual parity to consider here. In almost every case of adults having sex with teens, men have gotten heavy sentences while the women have gotten light sentences. The circumstances have been identical, yet the men pay a higher penalty for the exact same offense. So, while taking the feelings of the victims into account might be better, either take them into account in all cases, both male and female. or don't take them into account at all. And give sexual predators like this one, the same sentence you would give a man, not probation because the "poor woman has suffered enough". But, rather than write all this, and start a heated discussion about the validity of statutory rape laws, I decided to make a quick joke and get out... I still think my first decision was the right one... :)