[Phly]

Well, after reading the thread " Last person to be with in your home " I decided, that's a problem we all face, and now I'm here making this thread where we, the members, could post our daily life problems or any other problems for that matter and have our friends on tehparadox.com help us with these problems. I thought people on tehparadox could help us with our problems because this is a very unique forum full of people who don't act like immature idiots. So here's how it works:

1) Write your problem in FONT 4 AND IN RED.

2) When you answer these problems, please quote them and answer in FONT 4 AND IN BLUE

3) Please, take this thread seriously, because some members might really look to you for help.

4) Criticism is allowed.

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I will start ~

So, I've been talking to these 2 girls in my school. I'm a sophomore right now. One of them is a freshman, and the other is a sophomore, and like, I thought they were both cute so i thought WHY NOT GET TO KNOW THEM? And I started talking to them both, A LOT. And now I find out that both of them like me, and I really got close and bonded with both of them and now I don't know what to do& I somewhat feel like I need them but I can't decide on which, but if I do pick the one, then the other might feel sad and think I'm a jerk, which i really am not and vice-versa. I really am confused. Please feel free to help in anyway possible. thanks!

[davidburkett95]

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So, I've been talking to these 2 girls in my school. I'm a sophomore right now. One of them is a freshman, and the other is a sophomore, and like, I thought they were both cute so i thought WHY NOT GET TO KNOW THEM? And I started talking to them both, A LOT. And now I find out that both of them like me, and I really got close and bonded with both of them and now I don't know what to do& I somewhat feel like I need them but I can't decide on which, but if I do pick the one, then the other might feel sad and think I'm a jerk, which i really am not and vice-versa. I really am confused. Please feel free to help in anyway possible. thanks!

Have a threesome, duh

[Phly]

Quote: Originally Posted by davidburkett95

Have a threesome, duh

Lol, Not exactly xD

[tomandsusan]

Oh Phly, only to have YOUR problems! My advice is, let these two girls be your friends until one of THEM make a move. Otherwise you are "scrued". You will wind up turning them one against the other until they figure YOU are the problem and they both cut you loose. End result is you loose two friends. Friends are a lot harder to find and real easy to loose if you try to screw one of them! This ain't in blue but I'm not a smurf either.

[kholusoft]

Quote: Originally Posted by tomandsusan

Oh Phly, only to have YOUR problems! My advice is, let these two girls be your friends until one of THEM make a move. Otherwise you are "scrued". You will wind up turning them one against the other until they figure YOU are the problem and they both cut you loose. End result is you loose two friends. Friends are a lot harder to find and real easy to loose if you try to screw one of them! This ain't in blue but I'm not a smurf either.

what if both of them make a move??

[tomandsusan]

If both make a move, there ain't no happy ending! BUT before the end could be a lot of FUN!!

[Gandolph13]

I feel your pain Phly!
I had a similar problem when I was 24. I was separately dating two best friends, who were both happy with the arrangement, and we would often go out as a group of three and have a great time. No threesomes, but individual encounters, which they both knew about.
The problem came when they both started arguing over which one was going to marry me, and I couldn't understand the problem, they were best friends who shared everything, including me. I had a great life, and nobody previously brought up the dirty M word.
I made the only decision I could make, which really tore my heart out, and impeded on my sex life, I left town.
I met up with these two girls again when I went back to town for a friends birthday about 6 months later. We had gone out to a club, and they were there, and as soon as they saw me, things started getting hot and heavy, which really annoyed my mate who was celebrating his 30th, without female company. Anyway, it didn't take long for things to ice over again, and before the night was over, these girls were again arguing over who was going to marry me.
I left town again the next morning, and never went back.
I gotta be honest, I enjoyed being with both, but I did have a favorite.

[Phly]

Quote: Originally Posted by Gandolph13

I feel your pain Phly!
I had a similar problem when I was 24. I was separately dating two best friends, who were both happy with the arrangement, and we would often go out as a group of three and have a great time. No threesomes, but individual encounters, which they both knew about.
The problem came when they both started arguing over which one was going to marry me, and I couldn't understand the problem, they were best friends who shared everything, including me. I had a great life, and nobody previously brought up the dirty M word.
I made the only decision I could make, which really tore my heart out, and impeded on my sex life, I left town.
I met up with these two girls again when I went back to town for a friends birthday about 6 months later. We had gone out to a club, and they were there, and as soon as they saw me, things started getting hot and heavy, which really annoyed my mate who was celebrating his 30th, without female company. Anyway, it didn't take long for things to ice over again, and before the night was over, these girls were again arguing over who was going to marry me.
I left town again the next morning, and never went back.
I gotta be honest, I enjoyed being with both, but I did have a favorite.

Yours is a bit worse than mine. These girls don't know eachother xD But damn, 2 bestfriends that got into a fight for you, that's just pimp status. haha! Thanks for the story man, I think I know what I gotta do.